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11-20-2013, 09:10 PM
الأخت الزميلة / الزهرة سعد
ﻣﻦ ﺃﺟﻞ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ
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ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻄﺒﻴﻌﻲ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺸﻮﺏ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﻭﺍﻟﻨﺰﺍﻋﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺒﺴﻴﻄﺔ
ﺗﺴﻤﻰ ﺑﻤﻠﺢ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ. ﻟﻜﻦ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺯﺍﺩ ﺍﻷﻣﺮ ﻋﻦ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻓﻘﺪ ﻳﻨﻌﻜﺲ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺗﻮﺗﺮ ﻭﻗﻠﻖ
ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﻓﺮﺍﺩ ﺍﻷﺳﺮﺓ، ﻭﻗﺪ ﺗﺼﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﺷﻜﺎﻝ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻔﺔ ﻣﺜﻞ
ﺍﻟﺘﺮﺍﺷﻖ ﺑﺎﻷﻟﻔﺎﻅ ﺍﻟﺴﻴﺌﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺼﻞ ﺑﺎﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦﺇﻟﻰ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ
ﻣﺴﺪﻭﺩ.ﻣﻦ ﺃﺟﻞ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﻓﺈﻥ ﺍﻷﻃﺒﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺴﻴﻴﻦ ﻓﻲ
ﻓﺮﻧﺴﺎ،ﻭﺃﻧﺎ ﺃﺭﻯ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺃﻳﻀﺎً، ﻳﻨﺼﺤﻮﻧﻚ ﺑﺈﺿﻔﺎﺀ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ
ﻋﻠﻰ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ.
ﻭﻗﺪ ﺗﺘﺴﺎﺀﻟﻴﻦ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺴﺒﻴﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﻄﺮﻳﻖ
ﻹﺿﻔﺎﺀ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ؟
ﺍﻟﺤﻞ ﺑﺴﻴﻂ ﺟﺪﺍً ﻓﻬﻮ ﻳﻜﻤﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺮﺹ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺗﻘﺪﻳﻢ ﺍﻟﻤﻔﺎﺟﺂﺕ ﺍﻟﺼﻐﻴﺮﺓ
ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻚ، ﻣﺜﻞ ﺷﺮﺍﺀ ﺃﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺻﻐﻴﺮﺓ ﻭﺗﻘﺪﻳﻤﻬﺎ ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻚ ﻓﻲ ﺃﻭﻗﺎﺕ ﻋﺎﺩﻳﺔ
ﻟﺘﺸﻌﺮﻳﻪ ﺑﺎﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﻭﺗﻌﺒﺮﻳﻦ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻫﺘﻤﺎﻣﻚ ﺑﻪ، ﻭﺃﻳﻀﺎً ﺍﻟﺨﺮﻭﺝ ﻣﻊ ﺯﻭﺟﻚ
ﺑﻤﻔﺮﺩﻛﻤﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺁﻥ ﻷﺧﺮ ﻣﺎ ﻳﻌﻴﺪ ﺇﻟﻴﻜﻤﺎ ﺫﻛﺮﻳﺎﺕ ﺟﻤﻴﻠﺔ ﻧﺎﻋﻤﺔ، ﻭﻳﺴﺘﻌﻴﺪ
ﻣﺸﺎﻋﺮ ﺍﻟﺤﺐ ﺍﻟﻄﺎﻏﻴﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻤﻔﺘﻘﺪﺓ ﺑﻴﻨﻜﻤﺎ ﺍﻵﻥ.
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ﺩﺍﻋﺒﻲ ﻏﺮﻭﺭﻩ ... ﻓﺎﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﻳﻤﻴﻠﻮﻥ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻐﺬﻱ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﺔ ﻟﺪﻳﻬﻢ
ﺍﻟﺸﻌﻮﺭ ﺑﺄﻧﻬﻢ ﺃﺳﻴﺎﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺰﻝ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ "ﺳﻲ ﺍﻟﺴﻴﺪ"
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ﻳﻔﺴﺮ ﺍﻷﻃﺒﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺴﻴﻮﻥ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﻧﺴﻴﻮﻥ ﻣﻌﻨﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺑﺄﻧﻪ
ﺍﻟﺸﻌﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﺠﻤﻴﻞ ﺑﺄﻧﻚ ﻣﺮﻏﻮﺏ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟطرف ﺍﻷﺧﺮ ﻭﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﺎﻋﺮ ﺍﻟﺮﻗﻴﻘﺔ
ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻳﻜﻴﻦ، ﻭﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺸﻌﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺠﻌﻠﻜﻤﺎ ﺗﺤﻠﻘﺎﻥ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺴﻤﺎﺀ ﺑﻤﺠﺮﺩ ﻧﻈﺮ
ﺃﻱ ﻣﻨﻜﻤﺎ ﻓﻲ ﻋﻴﻨﻲ ﺍﻵﺧﺮ. ﻭﺍﺧﺘﻔﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺒﻴﻮﺕ ﻟﻪ ﺃﺛﺮ ﺳﻠﺒﻲ
ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﺩﺍﺀ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺑﺎﻗﻲ ﻣﺠﺎﻻﺕ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ.
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ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﻮﻥ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺎﺕ ﻫﻢ ﺍﻷﻛﺜﺮ ﻗﺪﺭﺓ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻹﻧﺘﺎﺝ ﻭﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﺇﻳﺠﺎﺑﻴﺔ
ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺘﻌﺎﻣﻞ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﺎﻛﻞ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻣﻴﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺍﻻﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻴﺔ، ﻭﻣﻦ ﺍﺟﻞ
ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻲ ﺯﻭﺟﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺳﻠﻢ ﺃﻭﻟﻮﻳﺎﺗﻚ،
ﻭﺣﺎﻭﻟﻲ ﻛﺴﺮ ﺭﻭﺗﻴﻦ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻜﻤﺎ ﺑﺸﺘﻰ ﺍﻟﻄﺮﻕ.
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ﻭﺍﻟﺪﻋﻮﺓ ﺍﻷﺧﻴﺮﺓ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺗﺨﺺ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺬﻳﻦ ﻳﻈﻨﻮﻥ ﺃﻥ ﺇﺭﺳﺎﻝ
ﺑﺎﻗﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺰﻫﻮﺭ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﻤﻜﺎﻟﻤﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﻬﺎﺗﻔﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺮﻗﻴﻘﺔ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻹﻃﺮﺍﺀ ﻭﺍﻟﻤﺪﻳﺢ ﻟﻠﺰﻭﺟﺔ
ﺃﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺛﺎﻧﻮﻳﺔ ﺍﻭ ﺗﺎﻓﻬﺔ ﺑﺪﻋﻮﻯ "ﺃﻧﻨﺎﻛﺒﺮﻧﺎ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﺜﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻷﺷﻴﺎﺀ"
ﺃﻭ ﺍﺳﺘﻨﺎﺩﺍً ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻔﺎﻧﻲ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺝ ﻓﻲ ﺗﻮﻓﻴﺮ ﺍﻟﻤﺎﺩﻳﺎﺕ ﻣﻦ ﺃﺟﻞ ﺿﻤﺎﻥ ﻣﺴﺘﻮﻯ ﻣﻌﻴﺸﻲ ﻻﺋﻖ ﻷﺳﺮﺗﻪ ﺃﻣﺮ ﻛﺎﻑ.
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ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﺷﺮﻛﺔ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﺛﻨﻴﻦ، ﻭﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻛﺔ ﺗﻘﻮﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺩﺓ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﺣﻤﺔ
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ﻟﺬﺍ ﻓﺈﻥ ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﻫﻲ ﻋﻼﻗﺔ ﺣﺐ ﻭﺗﻔﺎﻫﻢ ﺗﺘﺮﺗﺐ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﺎ ﺣﻘﻮﻕ
ﻭﻭﺍﺟﺒﺎﺕ، ﻭﻛﻤﺎ ﻗﻠﺖ ﺳﺎﺑﻘﺎً ﻗﺪ ﺗﺸﻮﺑﻬﺎ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﻣﺜﻠﻬﺎ ﻣﺜﻞ ﺃﻱ ﻋﻼﻗﺔ ﺇﻧﺴﺎﻧﻴﺔ.
ﻭﺻﻒ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺳﺒﺤﺎﻧﻪ ﻭﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ
ﺑـ"ﺍﻟﻤﻴﺜﺎﻕ ﺍﻟﻐﻠﻴﻆ"،
ﻭﺭﻏﻢ ﺍﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻣﺎ ﺗﺤﻠﻢ ﺑﻪ ﻛﻞ ﻓﺘﺎﺓ ﻭﺭﺟﻞ،
ﻗﺪ ﻳﺤﻮﻟﻪ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺿﻰ ﺇﻟﻰ ﻗﻴﻮﺩ ﺣﺪﻳﺪﻳﺔ،
ﻭﻳﺘﺤﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺷﺮﻳﻚ ﺭﺣﻴﻢ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺳﺠﺎﻥ ﻣﻘﻴﺖ.
ﻣﻦ ﺃﺟﻞ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ
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ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻄﺒﻴﻌﻲ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺸﻮﺏ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﻭﺍﻟﻨﺰﺍﻋﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺒﺴﻴﻄﺔ
ﺗﺴﻤﻰ ﺑﻤﻠﺢ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ. ﻟﻜﻦ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺯﺍﺩ ﺍﻷﻣﺮ ﻋﻦ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻓﻘﺪ ﻳﻨﻌﻜﺲ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺗﻮﺗﺮ ﻭﻗﻠﻖ
ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﻓﺮﺍﺩ ﺍﻷﺳﺮﺓ، ﻭﻗﺪ ﺗﺼﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﺷﻜﺎﻝ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻔﺔ ﻣﺜﻞ
ﺍﻟﺘﺮﺍﺷﻖ ﺑﺎﻷﻟﻔﺎﻅ ﺍﻟﺴﻴﺌﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺼﻞ ﺑﺎﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦﺇﻟﻰ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ
ﻣﺴﺪﻭﺩ.ﻣﻦ ﺃﺟﻞ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﻓﺈﻥ ﺍﻷﻃﺒﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺴﻴﻴﻦ ﻓﻲ
ﻓﺮﻧﺴﺎ،ﻭﺃﻧﺎ ﺃﺭﻯ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺃﻳﻀﺎً، ﻳﻨﺼﺤﻮﻧﻚ ﺑﺈﺿﻔﺎﺀ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ
ﻋﻠﻰ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ.
ﻭﻗﺪ ﺗﺘﺴﺎﺀﻟﻴﻦ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺴﺒﻴﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﻄﺮﻳﻖ
ﻹﺿﻔﺎﺀ ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ؟
ﺍﻟﺤﻞ ﺑﺴﻴﻂ ﺟﺪﺍً ﻓﻬﻮ ﻳﻜﻤﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺮﺹ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺗﻘﺪﻳﻢ ﺍﻟﻤﻔﺎﺟﺂﺕ ﺍﻟﺼﻐﻴﺮﺓ
ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻚ، ﻣﺜﻞ ﺷﺮﺍﺀ ﺃﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺻﻐﻴﺮﺓ ﻭﺗﻘﺪﻳﻤﻬﺎ ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻚ ﻓﻲ ﺃﻭﻗﺎﺕ ﻋﺎﺩﻳﺔ
ﻟﺘﺸﻌﺮﻳﻪ ﺑﺎﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﻭﺗﻌﺒﺮﻳﻦ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻫﺘﻤﺎﻣﻚ ﺑﻪ، ﻭﺃﻳﻀﺎً ﺍﻟﺨﺮﻭﺝ ﻣﻊ ﺯﻭﺟﻚ
ﺑﻤﻔﺮﺩﻛﻤﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺁﻥ ﻷﺧﺮ ﻣﺎ ﻳﻌﻴﺪ ﺇﻟﻴﻜﻤﺎ ﺫﻛﺮﻳﺎﺕ ﺟﻤﻴﻠﺔ ﻧﺎﻋﻤﺔ، ﻭﻳﺴﺘﻌﻴﺪ
ﻣﺸﺎﻋﺮ ﺍﻟﺤﺐ ﺍﻟﻄﺎﻏﻴﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻤﻔﺘﻘﺪﺓ ﺑﻴﻨﻜﻤﺎ ﺍﻵﻥ.
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ﺩﺍﻋﺒﻲ ﻏﺮﻭﺭﻩ ... ﻓﺎﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﻳﻤﻴﻠﻮﻥ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻐﺬﻱ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﺔ ﻟﺪﻳﻬﻢ
ﺍﻟﺸﻌﻮﺭ ﺑﺄﻧﻬﻢ ﺃﺳﻴﺎﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺰﻝ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ "ﺳﻲ ﺍﻟﺴﻴﺪ"
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ﻳﻔﺴﺮ ﺍﻷﻃﺒﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺴﻴﻮﻥ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﻧﺴﻴﻮﻥ ﻣﻌﻨﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺑﺄﻧﻪ
ﺍﻟﺸﻌﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﺠﻤﻴﻞ ﺑﺄﻧﻚ ﻣﺮﻏﻮﺏ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟطرف ﺍﻷﺧﺮ ﻭﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﺎﻋﺮ ﺍﻟﺮﻗﻴﻘﺔ
ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻳﻜﻴﻦ، ﻭﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺸﻌﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺠﻌﻠﻜﻤﺎ ﺗﺤﻠﻘﺎﻥ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺴﻤﺎﺀ ﺑﻤﺠﺮﺩ ﻧﻈﺮ
ﺃﻱ ﻣﻨﻜﻤﺎ ﻓﻲ ﻋﻴﻨﻲ ﺍﻵﺧﺮ. ﻭﺍﺧﺘﻔﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺒﻴﻮﺕ ﻟﻪ ﺃﺛﺮ ﺳﻠﺒﻲ
ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﺩﺍﺀ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺑﺎﻗﻲ ﻣﺠﺎﻻﺕ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ.
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ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﻮﻥ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺎﺕ ﻫﻢ ﺍﻷﻛﺜﺮ ﻗﺪﺭﺓ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻹﻧﺘﺎﺝ ﻭﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﺇﻳﺠﺎﺑﻴﺔ
ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺘﻌﺎﻣﻞ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﺎﻛﻞ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻣﻴﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺍﻻﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻴﺔ، ﻭﻣﻦ ﺍﺟﻞ
ﻣﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻲ ﺯﻭﺟﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺳﻠﻢ ﺃﻭﻟﻮﻳﺎﺗﻚ،
ﻭﺣﺎﻭﻟﻲ ﻛﺴﺮ ﺭﻭﺗﻴﻦ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻜﻤﺎ ﺑﺸﺘﻰ ﺍﻟﻄﺮﻕ.
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ﻭﺍﻟﺪﻋﻮﺓ ﺍﻷﺧﻴﺮﺓ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﻣﺎﻧﺴﻴﺔ ﺗﺨﺺ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺬﻳﻦ ﻳﻈﻨﻮﻥ ﺃﻥ ﺇﺭﺳﺎﻝ
ﺑﺎﻗﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺰﻫﻮﺭ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﻤﻜﺎﻟﻤﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﻬﺎﺗﻔﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺮﻗﻴﻘﺔ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻹﻃﺮﺍﺀ ﻭﺍﻟﻤﺪﻳﺢ ﻟﻠﺰﻭﺟﺔ
ﺃﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺛﺎﻧﻮﻳﺔ ﺍﻭ ﺗﺎﻓﻬﺔ ﺑﺪﻋﻮﻯ "ﺃﻧﻨﺎﻛﺒﺮﻧﺎ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﺜﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻷﺷﻴﺎﺀ"
ﺃﻭ ﺍﺳﺘﻨﺎﺩﺍً ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻔﺎﻧﻲ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺝ ﻓﻲ ﺗﻮﻓﻴﺮ ﺍﻟﻤﺎﺩﻳﺎﺕ ﻣﻦ ﺃﺟﻞ ﺿﻤﺎﻥ ﻣﺴﺘﻮﻯ ﻣﻌﻴﺸﻲ ﻻﺋﻖ ﻷﺳﺮﺗﻪ ﺃﻣﺮ ﻛﺎﻑ.
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ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﺷﺮﻛﺔ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﺛﻨﻴﻦ، ﻭﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻛﺔ ﺗﻘﻮﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺩﺓ ﻭﺍﻟﺮﺣﻤﺔ
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ﻟﺬﺍ ﻓﺈﻥ ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ ﻫﻲ ﻋﻼﻗﺔ ﺣﺐ ﻭﺗﻔﺎﻫﻢ ﺗﺘﺮﺗﺐ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﺎ ﺣﻘﻮﻕ
ﻭﻭﺍﺟﺒﺎﺕ، ﻭﻛﻤﺎ ﻗﻠﺖ ﺳﺎﺑﻘﺎً ﻗﺪ ﺗﺸﻮﺑﻬﺎ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﻣﺜﻠﻬﺎ ﻣﺜﻞ ﺃﻱ ﻋﻼﻗﺔ ﺇﻧﺴﺎﻧﻴﺔ.
ﻭﺻﻒ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺳﺒﺤﺎﻧﻪ ﻭﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﺔ
ﺑـ"ﺍﻟﻤﻴﺜﺎﻕ ﺍﻟﻐﻠﻴﻆ"،
ﻭﺭﻏﻢ ﺍﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻣﺎ ﺗﺤﻠﻢ ﺑﻪ ﻛﻞ ﻓﺘﺎﺓ ﻭﺭﺟﻞ،
ﻗﺪ ﻳﺤﻮﻟﻪ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺿﻰ ﺇﻟﻰ ﻗﻴﻮﺩ ﺣﺪﻳﺪﻳﺔ،
ﻭﻳﺘﺤﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺷﺮﻳﻚ ﺭﺣﻴﻢ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺳﺠﺎﻥ ﻣﻘﻴﺖ.